12 dimensions
Each dimension describes a spectrum, not a label. Learn what it measures and how to read your score.
Dominant / Leader
Inclination to take charge, set direction, and lead intimate interactions with confidence and care.
Mature leadership rests on listening and care. Thoughtful aftercare helps your partner feel securely held.
Submissive / Surrender
Enjoys relinquishing control to a trusted partner, finding peace and release in following.
Surrender is not compromise. Keeping safewords and hard limits is the foundation of a healthy dynamic.
Switch / Fluid
Fluid in navigating between leading and following depending on mood, scene, and partner chemistry.
Agree on today’s “channel” before play so power switches do not create mismatched expectations.
Caregiver / Nurturer
Protective, gentle guidance rooted in deep care, mentoring, and psychological reassurance.
While nurturing your partner, still voice your own needs. Healthy care is mutual.
Playful / Defiant
Brings cheeky resistance and playful teasing into the dynamic, testing boundaries to spark sparks.
Play needs clear cease-fire signals so teasing stays fun and never becomes a misunderstanding.
Disciplinarian / Anchor
Values clear expectations, protocol, and structured correction within a consensual framework.
Rules should deepen intimacy and trust—avoid turning daily life into rigid dogma.
Sensory Explorer
Highly responsive to tactile sensations, sensory deprivation, temperature, and physical thresholds.
Go gradually with sensory play and watch body signals and physiological limits closely.
Restraint / Bondage
Enjoys the aesthetic, physical restriction, and meditative state induced by consensual restraint.
Protect nerves and circulation, keep safety shears ready, and never restrain when exhausted or unsupervised.
Psychological Dynamic
Attracted to emotional tension, praise/humiliation balance, mind games, and mental submission.
Psychological play can create sharper drop. Debrief and affectionate reassurance afterward matter a lot.
Service & Devotion
Draws profound fulfillment from attending to a partner’s desires, comfort, and service.
Partners should sincerely thank devoted service—mutual respect keeps the dynamic sustainable.
Primal / Instinctive
Drawn to raw, animalistic energy, physical wrestling, chasing, and instinct-driven power play.
Mind joints and impacts during roughhousing; pad the space and plan safe landings.
Classic & Gentle
Prefers reciprocal, gentle, and egalitarian intimacy without complex power dynamics.
Gentle equality is the base of healthy intimacy—even when exploring other dynamics, keep mutual respect first.
Archetype gallery
Different dimension combinations produce distinct preference archetypes.
Charismatic Commander
You blend authority with protective warmth, effortlessly guiding interactions while keeping your partner safe.
Devoted Anchor
Deeply loyal and trustworthy, you find profound peace in letting go and supporting your chosen partner.
Fluid Chameleon (Switch)
A natural switch with high emotional versatility, enjoying both the art of leading and the freedom of yielding.
Playful Provocateur (Brat)
You bring irresistible spark and cheeky rebellion, longing for a partner capable of playfully taming your wild side.
Sensory Architect
A connoisseur of touch, tension, and altered states of consciousness through tactile and restraint exploration.
Primal Hunter
Driven by raw vitality and physical tension, finding connection in dynamic chase and instinctive intensity.
Gentle Companion
You cherish sweet, equal, and grounded tenderness, finding ultimate joy in peaceful romantic presence.